Trial and Error : Pattern and Fabric Mixing / Choices / Update

If I can photograph an outfit from all sides, and it still looks good, I know it works. My mirrors lie to me, but my camera never lies!  The old girl has values ;)  This outfit seemed like it would look great ( in theory) and I was excited to wear it, but the proportions were a bit off for my body type. ( I have a wide top and a narrow bottom.) I like the top, and even kept the original belt attached. I liked the mix of colors It was the style of each piece that could have been better. The satin was a bit shiny for the look I was going for,though it drapes beautifully. The skirt was too narrow, but I still like the pattern mix. I paired the pieces with some hard, chunky wood accessories and tough gladiator flats for a more ethnic feel, but next time, I'll skip the satin!

I actually rolled my hair with rollers! This used to be my usual. A curly up-do with a clippy! ( W/O the scarf )

See what I mean? Oh well, live and learn ;)

This photo was the most flattering, but I'm all about the honesty ;)

CHOICES

This blogging thingy has certainly been making me take a look at my choices (fashion or otherwise), and has brought me to some conclusions that I may or may not be comfy with.

1. What works for one person may not work for everybody. Example: Toddler attire is not flattering on me.
2. My body isn't as fit, nor as photogenic as it used to be. (though when I'm 70, I'll look back at this and smile) Most of you guys can't even imagine being in your 40's! Tee, Hee! It will happen.
3. I tend to look best in age-appropriate ( I cringe as I say this ) outfits. Now, before you smack me, hear me out! I will ALWAYS be willing to try out new trends, but I may save my chunky clogs for a simple look, instead of pairing them with a tutu, like the younguns do so well.
4. I have big boobs and a small, flat butt. So, to look my best, I need to create balance between the top and bottom. I am a D cup. I deal with it. Oh, to have small, perky boobies....
5. I can take what I need and leave the rest. Example: Just because I like the Forever 21 mannequin's look, it may look like a Halloween costume on me.
6. Stay true to your inner voice! Example: When I put on an outfit, it's O.K. to leave off say, 2 or 3 accessories and still look like I make an effort. Or, on the flip side, it's O.K. to drown myself in them!
7. It's O.K. to be my age and to be a crazy cat lady! ( Cringe )
8. Risk taking is a good thing. I always learn something.
9. Age is all a mind-set,( Cringing again ) and with age comes wisdom, nothing more. I am wising up and realizing what I look good in and what I don't.
10. Being a saged chick means that I can still be me, without the need to try too hard. As a matter of fact, the harder I try, the more insecure I end up looking ;)

Disclaimer: These opinions are subject to change at any minute ;)

Have a great weekend !!!

*Reva*

IMPORTANT UPDATE !!!
Is it O.K. to let other's know when a blogger is sending out malware and spam ???
I just went to a blog which I used to visit all the time and my wonderful computer warned me that
this site contains MALWARE ! No wonder I have been getting so much spam lately ! That sucks !

Easy, Breezy, Kinda Cheesy

We've been living in thunderstorm alley this week. I am still in my "simplify things up" mood. Spending time cleaning , re-decorating and removing a lot of  "stuff" that has been weighing me down. My outfit reflects said mood. I got this jumpsuit, jumper, romper, (one-piece wearing object) while seeing the softer side of Sears back in June. I'm still not sure if I like it. The material is kinda shiny and slicker-like, though it does have pockets. That's why I always keep my tags and receipt, just in case. This may be one of those just-in-cases! I was gonna use a bright scarf as a belt, my original intention, but I just wasn't feeling it. Thus a boho scarf from Payless. Ta,Da. Easy Breezy and kinda Cheesy! Not sure where that came from, but it rhymes ;)

Sandals: Targei' (old) - Cardi: Old Navy - Beret: F21 - Necklace: Sears.

WW40 Update: I am still bombarding Weardrobe, but with less vigor. Defeated? Nah! Ever let go if something for a while, and then it happens? We'll call it my Zen approach ;) I am still going for "the shot" though. It will be mine, Oh Yes, it will be mine!

Here comes the rain again !

Indian Fashion

I have never been to India, but I love the gorgeous style of this area. Thanks to a wonderful friend, Vix, of VintageVixen, she sent me a lovely skirt made of recycled silk Sari's, a necklace made of wool beads, a really funky sash/belt, and some cat earrings that were her beloved Mum's from the 80's, all wrapped in a silk bag from India as well ! She also sent a card that is made from a hand-painted leaf. Beautiful! My good cammy is down right now, so you will see photos of it soon. I am going to frame it. This was my first international package ! I am so honored, and have worn it twice already, but finally popped off some shots I feel are worthy of this beauty! Thanks, Vix! She is so awesome and her style is amazing! Vintage frocks, jumble boot sales ( I hope I said that right ;). a full time E-bay seller,a traveler and true Bohemian who loves India, and a dear heart. Her blog is a must read each day for me.

I paired the skirt with a billowy top and metal embellished glads and a vintage scarf, plus some giant hoops.

The vibrant colors of silk and gorgeous jewels.The art of beauty. There is nothing on earth as beautiful.

Honesty, as a Westerner, I think of Mother Teresa, Calcutta, Beautiful jewelry, Silver, Henna, Silk Sari's, ankle bells, and beautiful dark skin. Temples, lots of color, and lots of sun. A place where going bare-foot is considered lovely. I'm sure this is a skewed view, but as a fashion blog, I wanted to share the styles I most admire about India.

I hope I did you proud, Vix!