tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post4777931297494064281..comments2023-10-11T03:48:50.931-04:00Comments on Revas Rags 2 Roses: Is It Me, Us or Them? / "Links-a-la Mode"Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06360833507127511662noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-57889665550033161552012-05-01T06:48:12.677-04:002012-05-01T06:48:12.677-04:00First off, you look amazing no matter what the siz...First off, you look amazing no matter what the size. I've had this same problem with street style photography for a while. I don't know what street they're on, but it certainly isn't mine! While I think that very young, very skinny women can be incredibly stylish, I wish that street style photography showed more of the range of incredibly stylish women that there are in the world!Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07395668352640656250noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-79151589457561896812012-05-01T04:13:09.004-04:002012-05-01T04:13:09.004-04:00obviously nature makes us different, so why should...obviously nature makes us different, so why should we look all the same. what media makes us believe is only for the profit of the pharmaceutical industry, which wants us to buy their "reduce weight" products. I am wearing size 14 now, usually eat what I want, do sports and I feel on top of the world. when I was 30, wearing size 10, I did no sports but trying to eat little and often felt too thick and bulky. what a nonsense! if I'm plus size or not, should not affect my life. although I would like to keep my weight, or even reduce a little, because it is better for my health, but not because i want to look better. reva, I am watching your blog almost every day, you always look fantastic in size 10 or 12, that is not important. <br />cheers and hugs, sabinesabine ingerlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02940292065989260853noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-77995349643147363092012-04-29T20:52:31.582-04:002012-04-29T20:52:31.582-04:00Give 'em hell! In my closet, I have items ran...Give 'em hell! In my closet, I have items ranging from size 2 to size 12...and they all fit, so sizing is one problem. I recently went to a wellness check and at 5'7" I weighed 139, but my body fat measured at 29 or something, which was shocking to me. I know that as I age I'm worried about the appearance of my dental work and the wings that seem to be sprouting on my upper arms.<br /><br />A couple of years ago, a young man in my American Literature class pronounced that skinny women were a waste...he much preferred flesh that MOVED. I think there are a variety of standards that could be applied and unfortunately style bloggers with wide standards of acceptance are just one.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-86550181801383358022012-04-29T19:28:51.481-04:002012-04-29T19:28:51.481-04:00I've been turned off by this aspect of street ...I've been turned off by this aspect of street style blogs for a while now...so I completely agree with you! Plus size is actually NOT plus size, it's just a size. Size 2 is not minus size, it's just a size. I think that there's definitely an obesity epidemic in the US, however, I think we also have a very warped sense of what is a healthy size (which by the way, looks different on everyone). American women in general have completely bought into "the smaller the better" when it comes to their bodies. Seems the nicest comment a woman can get nowadays is, "You are soooo skinny!" And with all the images constantly coming at us, it's not easy to avoid that mindset. I think you've expressed it beautifully! Bravo girly! Hugs! ~SereneAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16372495540919045223noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-2010738165518921242012-04-29T19:13:36.122-04:002012-04-29T19:13:36.122-04:00Well hell, Reva: you should whip out your writing ...Well hell, Reva: you should whip out your writing powers more often! And your commenters are very wise, too, by pointing out the all-or-nothing, extremist thinking in American culture. Like being size 2 or morbidly obese are the ONLY two options? Moderation and attainable goals, anyone?Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-31773476152217714852012-04-29T19:10:04.678-04:002012-04-29T19:10:04.678-04:00Natasha,
You are right, there is an obesity proble...Natasha,<br />You are right, there is an obesity problem, especially here in the US. I hope there's an answer to finding what makes us all feel and look healthy, without pressure from media.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06360833507127511662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-79067537254048270672012-04-29T18:25:10.719-04:002012-04-29T18:25:10.719-04:00I love it when I see women of all sizes modeling c...I love it when I see women of all sizes modeling clothes, but I'm not a fan of the anorexic look. <br />I do have a bit of an issue with people always comparing sizes to what the average size is...20 years ago the average weight was a lot lower than it is now...right now the average womens waist size in America is 34", which is 1" away from what they consider extremely unhealthy, and that the risk of heart issues increases incredibly. I'm sure the average model now is smaller than 20 years ago, but I don't think they're 15%(23%-8%) smaller....we're just that much bigger. I think people need to focus more on showing healthy bodies, and comparing numbers to healthy ones, not the average, because right now the average is quite unhealthy.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00538670346375359860noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-85375174599108445132012-04-29T18:07:51.328-04:002012-04-29T18:07:51.328-04:00I am so happy for your rant here. I just agree wit...I am so happy for your rant here. I just agree with you all the way. As a normal gal myself, I just feel fashion has such a negative effect sometimes. Especially on young girls. I am all for seeing more real women!<br /><br />thequeenofwanderlust.blogspot.comSarahhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17984149534973154354noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-19793395713564789932012-04-29T18:05:09.943-04:002012-04-29T18:05:09.943-04:00Thanks for the comments,
and to Laura: my poor w...Thanks for the comments, <br /><br />and to Laura: my poor writing skills have proven to be true ;)-the tan comment was meant to be a tongue-in-cheek tribute to the false need to be tan and have gorgeous hair "if you are plus-size".<br /><br />Forest City Fashionista: I like your blog and it is great to see more saged women, but it does seem that the 'big dogs' that I've been paroozing are but a few. I'm off to check out your images right now :)<br />I agree we all need to define our own sense of beauty. I have major issues seeing the beauty within myself, so it's all just an opinion from a self conscious blogger ;)<br /><br />Thanks so much for everyone's imput!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06360833507127511662noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-77613461392303639882012-04-29T16:17:19.260-04:002012-04-29T16:17:19.260-04:00I hope that some day, we won't have to have di...I hope that some day, we won't have to have discussions like this because we will see images of every kind of age and body type in our media, but alas, it's unlikely to be in my lifetime. I do my best to present a range of ages and sizes in my street style photos, but where I live, it tends to be the younger women who dress with imagination. I keep trying to encourage women my age to have more fun with their clothes!Forest City Fashionistahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04428940427287921203noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-34596831709863147042012-04-29T15:04:21.010-04:002012-04-29T15:04:21.010-04:00Well, one thing is for sure...you ARE a writer and...Well, one thing is for sure...you ARE a writer and an excellent communicator..well said. Take it from someone who truly IS plus size, the pressures of this world are great...we need to only know that we are all beautiful and that we need to be healthy..however that is defined for each of us. Unfortunately, the marketing world doesn't understand what a real woman is...Pam @ over50feeling40https://www.blogger.com/profile/15271159201006142602noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-81682475384110865962012-04-29T13:43:34.509-04:002012-04-29T13:43:34.509-04:00Great post. I'm a UK16, which I think is about...Great post. I'm a UK16, which I think is about a US12. Throughout my early 20s I was a UK12, (US8?) but at 6ft tall, I don't actually think I looked as glam as bigger me does. I love following blogs written by a massive variety of ladies who know how to dress and aren't slaves to fashion. I do worry for the younger generations though and what role models they have.Louise Mchttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14858832660475944060noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-503011573087365682012-04-29T12:45:11.931-04:002012-04-29T12:45:11.931-04:00I am in my early 50s, relatively fit and health-sa...I am in my early 50s, relatively fit and health-savvy. I too have noticed street style blogs tend to post photos of thin, model-y type women. <br /><br />IMO, "healthy" is somewhere between the two extremes presented in your article. "Skinny" is not healthy. "Fat" is not healthy. (sidenote: you refer to being "tan" as "healthy" -- take it from me, it's not! It looks good, it feels good, but it's not healthy!) <br /><br />We Americans are stereotyped throughout the world as being "fat" and there's serious truth to this global image. <br /><br />There *is* a happy medium in here, one that fits nicely between Kate Moss and obesity. A fashion blog like yours is the perfect place for it. (I do love your blog and am so happy I found you)<br /><br />xoxoLaura Millerhttp://pinterest.com/toldhertalenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-2713981036613165702012-04-29T10:37:16.986-04:002012-04-29T10:37:16.986-04:00What to me is ludicrous is all the talk about the ...What to me is ludicrous is all the talk about the "obesity" problem in the US. Yet, those of us who are normal size (and healthy) seem to be invisible to the media. If you look around you, those tiny sizes are not the real norm. This is probably why the ultra-thin image is seen as even more desirable. I look at this as a correlation to the 1 vs. 99 percent economic argument -- only being carried out in the female "ideal" body size. Everyone wishes they were the one percent.Alex Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15562233895276078957noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-5308673249173913782012-04-29T10:34:48.058-04:002012-04-29T10:34:48.058-04:00Wow, you look so much better now - and I do find t...Wow, you look so much better now - and I do find that women generally do look better with a bit of weight on (though I still moan when I can't fit into a size 6 anymore. sad eh?). The sad, sad thing is our culture worships and valorizes the super, super skinny.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-73236428782929817832012-04-29T10:11:35.372-04:002012-04-29T10:11:35.372-04:00I think so much of it has to do with the perceived...I think so much of it has to do with the perceived market for this media. I think that many women don't start to realize that every body is different and we should love the one we have until they are in their 30s or older. <br /><br />Young women in their teens and 20s are the key demographic for fashion and style. Unfortunately these trends feed insecurity and the propegation of the myth that being tiny is the only way to be stylish or beautiful.Kathryn from Schoolmarm Stylehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05088173471960294467noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-40186243143507812962012-04-29T07:45:19.350-04:002012-04-29T07:45:19.350-04:00Hi Reva. I think you're right. Street style se...Hi Reva. I think you're right. Street style seems to lean toward the size zero end of the spectrum. I'm a 12-14 and that feels right to me. <br />Thank goodness for blogs!Style Agent 909https://www.blogger.com/profile/01900026888364291557noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-62946225754827152942012-04-29T05:44:15.134-04:002012-04-29T05:44:15.134-04:00I am with you 200% on the matter, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhh...I am with you 200% on the matter, ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh I find it so annoying to see all the street style shots are dollies size zero and 20 years old top.<br />Brilliant post Reva, so proud.<br />XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXmispapelicoshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11209220366975722334noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7765128654756811135.post-31812715348833673942012-04-29T04:38:45.288-04:002012-04-29T04:38:45.288-04:00Good rant, Reva! Part of the reason I started a st...Good rant, Reva! Part of the reason I started a street style blog was because I was only seeing mainstream model material on the streets in other blogs, mostly women 22ish and thin. How boring! Diversity feeds the imagination in every aspect of living. There's is so much to celebrate in the quotidian.Melaniehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06218727738029858422noreply@blogger.com